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I love my parents. And want to live with them.but they are cruel on me.my mother teases me for no reason.i am so depressed.My parents do not allow me to study, which causes me a great deal of distress. I find it very heartbreaking that I do not find peace even in my own home, and that my own parents treat me this way.They treats me as their slave. My mother strongly opposes me. Their belief is that since they raised me, I am indebted to them, and now they have the right to treat me however they want. They expect me not to react against their cruelty, nor even to call their cruelty cruelty, because they consider it their right.đđđ
But I love them and do not want to lost them.
Hello guys.My parents constantly harass, humiliate, and degrade me. They cause me severe mental distress, and I am extremely troubled. Because of this stress, my eyesight has weakened. The environment at home is very tense and restless. Due to this environment, I am unable to study properly, which is affecting my education. And when I cannot study properly, I am blamed for not studying. In front of outsiders as well, I am made to appear at fault. I am extremely distressed. What should I do?
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Last reply by Janette on 07 Jan 2026 at 6:11 PM UTC
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Janette posted on 07 Jan 2026 at 6:11 PM UTC
I'm glad I could help ease your stress.
I think that sometimes parents put too much pressure on children by thinking too far into the future and not enough about today.
If you stay positive your future can be whatever you want it to be.
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Have you thought about talking to your parents about how their words make you feel? That can be scary but sometimes parents donât realize the impact of their behavior. It might help to share what youâre going through and how itâs affecting your mental health and studies. Maybe starting with "I feel really hurt whenâŚ" could make it a bit easier to talk about.
If it feels too much, maybe you could ask a friend to help you talk to them. Having someone there can really take the pressure off.
I really hope you feel better soon. đđ
I'm truly sorry to hear about what you're going through. It sounds incredibly painful and isolating to deal with constant negative treatment from your parents. Please know that it's not your fault, and you deserve to be treated with kindness and respect.
Having an environment filled with tension can be really overwhelming, especially when youâre trying to focus on your education. Itâs understandable that this stress is affecting your ability to study and even your health. No one should have to endure humiliation or degradation, especially from their own family.
I encourage you to reach out to someone you trust perhaps a teacher, school counselor, or close friend. Having a supportive person to talk to can make a significant difference. They could provide guidance and help you find ways to cope with the situation.
Additionally, consider seeking professional help. A counselor or therapist can offer tools to manage the mental distress youâre experiencing. It can be incredibly beneficial to talk to someone who understands what youâre going through and can provide a safe space for you to express your feelings.
In the meantime, try to carve out some time for yourself, even if itâs just a few moments each day. Engage in activities that make you feel good, like listening to music, drawing, or going for a walk. Finding those small pockets of peace can help sustain you through the tough times.
Remember, youre not alone in this and it's brave of you to share your feelings. You deserve support and a nurturing environment. Please take care of yourself and reach out for help.